we are happy with the self.Very often we are puzzled to deal with Identity factor.No doubt, Identity empowers us with a sense of security, recognition, joy, belongingness, attitude, altitude and much more.

people identify themselves in different ways (as a professional/roles they play /group or territory they belong,etc....)

An Elder brother shows his strength to make his younger one yield.Can't he influence without his identity as an elder brother?

However,what happens to their identity whey they leave their influential zone at once?One can be a Big B in his/her neighbourhood.He cannot enjoy the same recognition,once he goes out.Identity is the mask we wear for our convenience.It has to be lifted to test our humaneness/self.

What ultimately works universally is the true and humane love.

Dissolving our identity keeps us away from getting egoistic.when Identity is seen only as a tool to uphold our self esteem, then life really becomes blissful.